Monday, May 12, 2025
Two Minute Rule
Sunday, January 22, 2023
Regimenting
Keeping myself to a schedule has largely collapsed since retiring. I can no longer even get up when the wrist alarm buzzes, though I'm pretty good at dental hygiene, getting coffee, and reviewing my Daily Task List once put myself upright. Then the days get largely amorphous, lots of things I could do, some notion of priority, but no fixed time to do most of them. I typically go through the list periodically, deciding what I could do right now, and for the most part pick one. What I've not done well is decide what I am going to do at 1 PM or any other fixed time. I much prefer the freedom of not having timed appointments, even appointments with myself, though I suspect the things that have gone best are those when I have some notion of when during my day I will tackle a particular initiative. Treadmill after coffee, shabbos dinner on Friday afternoon. Those all get done. Plan tomorrow, or write in my Hakaras HaTov Log, after supper, weekly YouTube entry Monday after supper. Those always get done, probably because I have generated an habitual time for completing them. Probably need to create writing time, work on house time, and some other major categories. There are now scheduling programs and apps that may make this easier. I think it will also make me more productive.
Friday, January 29, 2021
Personal Prohibitions
As I work on my personal productivity, or maybe efficiency, getting rid of distractions has been more helpful than purposeful scheduling with mandatory doing. Thou shalt nots come more easily than thou musts. My long legacy of kashrut has made avoidance of certain foods rather easy, protection of shabbos by banning otherwise pleasurable weekday pursuits has imposed more of a challenge with a successful trajectory overall. So if I want to reduce my weight, exercising has been a chore but not putting cookies or soda into the shopping cart goes easily. I've moved onto harder prohibitions. Sleep needs to be improved, having had a major setback. I will now not return to bed until my assigned bedtime once I arise. No more catnaps and I've started reading in a chair rather than on my mattress. If I can set aside activities for shabbos each week, I can avoid social media twice a week. This has gone well. Removing this from the competition for my attention, or even transient but not very useful pleasure, has made it easier to substitute more purposeful alternatives such as reading or watching my Great Courses that promote other useful initiatives.
Having altered my grocery shopping for a few months, I do not have a feeling of deprivation but have been pleased with the reading on the scale first thing every Monday morning. Not having FB or Tw on the days divisible by four still has a sense of deprivation, not really FOMO but an activity I like to engage in even though not in my best interest. Avoiding my mattress is a new initiative. So far I don't miss it, though my sleep pattern has not yet responded favorably to the introduction of this difficult element of formal sleep hygiene.
I don't yet have a good explanation for why Don't Do avoidances have been easier for me than Must Do tasks, but they are. As long as they can be put to good advantage, that will be the preferred path to my personal upgrades.